My official first wedding-related post!
You may have noticed, I have added a new tab to the menu called “WEDDING”
On this page I will be sharing everything related to our wedding held at the
Canadian Museum of History in Gatineau, QC on May 14, 2016
I hope you enjoy reading about our journey preparing leading up to the big day!
In addition, I hope some of my posts may help another bride-to-be in her research and planning for her wedding! Please feel free to message if you have any questions!
Michael and I were engaged after 3 years together on March 12, 2014.
Did we start planning our wedding right away? Definitely not!
But here were a few things we knew for sure:
- We wanted to graduate first and start working before getting married.
- That very likely our wedding would be back in Ottawa, Canada (most convenient location for the majority of our family and friends) – even though an elopement or destination wedding would’ve less stressful! 😉
- As international medical students studying in Australia – we were each in debt by $250+K. That meant we couldn’t actually have a real ‘budget.’ All the money we spent would be money that a) We could’ve used to pay back our debt or b) Put us in further debt.
Needless to say, the stress of school and the thought of spending quite a bit of money on a wedding was enough to keep us from any serious planning for a while!
I remember it being quite stressful, for the both of us, to discuss or even think about what we wanted for a wedding. Being international graduates, we weren’t guaranteed a job after graduating, and it was an even slimmer chance of getting a job at the same hospital, in the same city.
But our stars were aligned and when we both got offered positions together at Rockhampton Hospital beginning January 2015 – we breathed a sigh of relief knowing that we would actually be making an income and be able to even pay for a wedding!
The key: Don’t rush into planning a wedding if you are not mentally/physically/financially ready to do so!
We finally started discussing and researching our wedding options. Here are some of our topics that I’ll eventually be sharing in more detail…
- Ceremony (I’m Catholic and Michael is Protestant)
- Food (our main priority)
- Music (self/band/DJ, etc)
- Photographer (Sandra’s must have)
- Bridal party
- Incorporating cultural aspects
- Number of guests
- Wedding dress
- Stationary (RSVPs/invites/programs/menus, etc)
- Gifts for parents/bridal party, etc
- Wedding favours
Before looking into anything specific, I started my ‘planning’ by spending quite a bit of time browsing wedding boards on Pinterest, saving everything from colour palettes, hair/makeup looks, wedding dresses, etc. It was so easy and such a great platform for me to quickly get ideas and see related looks.
I also read a lot on wedding boards/websites like Wedding Bee and The Knot. I had no experience with wedding planning and I had yet to attend any weddings – there were many things I needed to learn! Questions to ask vendors before hiring them, etiquette for invite wording, ideas for bridesmaid gifts, order of procession, etc! Of course, there is no definite right or wrong way to do anything, as a wedding is your own, but it’s always good to get the general idea of how things are usually done!
I definitely recommend doing the above to get started on your wedding planning! And don’t forget to ask your family and friends for ideas/advice – they are a wealth of information sometimes. But always be careful of the strong personalities!
I also highly suggest discussing with your partner in advance what your priorities are when it comes to the wedding. Gives you a rough breakdown of where the biggest chunks of your money will be going towards. For example:
- Michael and I both agreed that our venue, food, and photographer were most important to us.
- I couldn’t care less about spending tons of money on a designer wedding gown I’ll only wear once.
- We were both easy going with music options.
- Videography would be nice to have but not essential if we wanted to save money.
- We both felt it was wasteful to spend a lot of money on fresh flowers for bouquets/decor and were keen to look for cheaper options and fake flowers
Then came the real planning… when we started communicating with actual people about what we wanted for the big day. 🙂
Will share more with individual posts – stay tuned! And thanks for reading! 🙂